Monday, December 28, 2009 @ 7:09 PM
29th December 2009 IIYesterday we started a little arguement on MANNER. hahaha! something new ya? hahaha...Its only a small matter. But we made a mountain out of a mole hill. Simply starts with a........CARPARK! HAHAHA.....
We are meeting on 2nd Jan at orchard. So i ask you where should i park. I just ask...didn't ask you help to find. I simply typed "so where should i park?"...i NEVER type "hey! help me look for cheap carpark at orchard". Hai...you found Le meridian...yes, its cheap. But i found park hotel...is even cheaper. So i just ask you take a look. I didn't say i CONFIRM parking park hotel. Then you start to feel unappreciated, thinking that i didn't take your choice into consideration. I know you gave me a good choice, but no harm looking at other choice as well right? no harm having back up choice right? haiz.....You are always a "kan chiong spider"...make fast decisions. Be calm and patient la, look everything from different angles, analyse other choice as well. Haiyoyo.....You are always so into youself, to that extend that what i said, will not get into you. i already say i am still considering which carpark.....i told you twice or more. But you keep asking me " WHY DON'T CONSIDER LE MERIDIAN?" HAIYO! i already say i am still considering right? hai......perhaps i am someone who don't like to nag. So i find it irrating to repeat what i said.
In life, there will definately be rejections. You can't expect your suggestion will always be the best. If i ask for your help, and only by taking your suggestion can make you feel appreciated, who will dare to ask you for help? If i ask 3 person for help, everyone thinks like you did. What should i do? take all 3 choices when i can only make 1 choice? Or what if i think that what you suggested is not better than my choice? I still have to force myself to choose your decision so as to make you feel appreciated? Your choice might seems the best to you, but not necessary to others. Don't feel hurt or disappointed or unappreicated when you are being rejected, It's the thought and effort that counts. Understand? At least you make the effort to help. That's enough
I think you are very sensitive. But you say you're not. hahaha.....so be it ba. You say you are not sensitive, then you are not lo...to me, appreciation or whatsoever is just something extra/ bonus. It doesn't matter to me as much as it is to you. So long as i know i made the effort to help, i am happy. Be it if my help is taken into account or be it he/she appreciate my help. You need to open up your arms to everyone and live with a BIG heart....to forgive and forget. Don't be so narrow minded or petty....get angry or upset with small little matters. That will make your life much more unhappy.
Hahaha....i think after reading, you still disagree with what i said? But that's my view about you la. Don't get angry....hahahah....BIG HEART BIG HEART....
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