It's 2am. We just had a quarrel this morning.issue? Your baby nephew birthday party this friday. why? time crashed. we arranged to meet on thurday night. I will drive to your place and meet you for supper and drive back to jurong because next day i need to go for tomb sweeping. My tomb sweeping will ends at about 1 plus and you expect me to reach seng keng for the party at 2.30pm SHARP.
As a boyfriend, don't you feel a little heartache to see your girlfriend rushing here and there and doesn't have enough sleep? if i am a boyfriend, i will. Because i love and care for my gf. i dote on her, i want her to have enough rest, doesn't want her to be tired.
You said you attended my family function without fail, and you only ask me to attend once, i rejected. All i can say, is that the timing is not right. It's not as if i reject you without a valid reason. If i does, that's my fault. But it's tomb sweeping! i find it reasonable. You said you attend my family functions because u doesn't want to disappoint me. But seriously, i will not be disappointed at all. I will understand. So long as u give me a reason, i will understand. You doesn't need to come for my sake. Everytime i invite you over, it's because i know you got no program, will be bored at home. And as a gf, i should do something. That is why i invite you over. If you prefer staying at home or go out with others, i am totally fine....so long as you are happy.
I was really very angry and disappointed in you over this issue. You are still not understanding.Nobody is to be blame. Perhaps you needed me more than i needed you. But this way really stressed and pressured me. Anyway, my plan before we quarrel is to try my best to go over asap. Can make it, i will attend the party, can't make it then i'll meet you after the party.
Haiz, i really don't understand....why issue that seems small to me...seems big to you? And issue that seems small to you....seems big to me...i really don't know...love, it's complicated.